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Tired of being lonely? Are you ready to
recover? It is only when folks are tired of their loneliness that they
start to look for solutions. The natural inclination is to put up
with loneliness, hoping something wonderful will happen and
loneliness will simply go away.
However, the inertia of loneliness is
directly related to the inertia of the person suffering from
loneliness. Laziness and the lack of desire to act (the inertia) are
major reasons for loneliness. If there is fun to be had the
individual is willing to move toward it. Most individuals are not
inclined to move toward creating fun for themselves and others.
Tired enough to act?
yourself? To realize you need improvement?
Think of 'tired of being lonely' as a
sign post on the highway to permanent loneliness.
It is also a sign
post for an exit ramp. Take that exit and enter the town of
aggressive action. Take aggressive action to overcome your
Do research about the steps involved in overcoming
loneliness. Examine your personality closely and see if you need to
go in for some self improvement. Explore the reasons that cause you
to turn down social invitations. Find out what is in the way of
volunteering your time. Which cause would you happily volunteer for?
Research the subject of...
you will discover that loneliness negatively affects the thought
processes of lonely people. Visiting forum posts under the heading,
“Tired of being lonely” is the worst thing you could do. Once you
are aware of that, you can monitor your own thoughts and avoid
following through on your negative thoughts.
The solution to mental fatigue is
physical action. However, some people go out volunteering for one
weekend, not like the experience and give up on it for years or
If you are pulled between your desire to be active and your
desire to stay at home, try alternating between accepting invitations
and turning down invitations or between volunteering one weekend and
staying home one weekend. With that technique you will have made 50%
progress toward your goal and then you can let the good feelings from
that 50% progress slowly pull you out of your loneliness.
Accepting social invitations, research
on the subject of loneliness and volunteer activities is the easy
route out of loneliness.
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