A lonely road is a virtual path. It is
a path through life you choose when you make choices that cause you
to be alone. Avoiding events is a sure path to loneliness. Alone-ness
does not cause loneliness, but make those kind of choices often
enough, act upon those choices and you can get disconnected from your
friends and family, causing you to become lonely.
This road only gets lonelier as
...travel along its length. Each such decision or action can be a
mile marker to the destination of loneliness.
As you travel down this virtual path, write a journal of the thoughts you have during
your free time. Do this for two weeks. At the end of two weeks
examine your journal.
If you find that a lot of your thoughts are
negative and show that you have no hope of recovering from your
loneliness, get yourself some help. Loneliness causes a person to
have negative thoughts. So you will most likely need help from an
individual other than yourself. You are on a road to a very
dangerous destination and you need to find a way to get off this
Since this virtual path can take you to
a dangerous destination of loneliness it can also be used to travel
from your loneliness back to friendship and a happy position in
society. Spend a weekend going over the choices and actions that got
you to your current position on this road. Then consciously
take steps to reverse the effects of those choices and actions.
Realize that it is your own choices,
temperament and actions that got you where you are. If you make an
effort to think positively and make certain choices, you can reverse
the effect of your earlier choices and actions.
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