Valentines Day, even though it honors a
saint, is an artificial non-holiday subverted by businesses. It comes
along and bugs you every year from February 4th to
February 17th. Rather than let it bug you, use the first
one after you read this web page to choose what you are going to do –
go for it or ignore it.
What can a lonely person do? It is a personal choice. You could choose to treat it
like a wake up call and work toward ensuring you have a date with one
you love or find your love within 52 weeks so you are not alone on
the next Valentinus Die, as it is called in Latin.
Or you could choose to ignore the commercialized
non-holiday and decide to ignore it every year from now on.
Decide that you are going to fight for
fifty two weeks every year to have a happy Valentines Day every year. Or decide that you are going to
ignore Valentinus Die for the rest of your life.
So it is fight or
flight. Use this Valentinus Die to make that decision. Decide to be
in one camp or the other. Let us call those who want to be for
Valentines Day the Saints and those who want to be in the opposite
camp the Wizards.
Going for it:
If you have decided to go for it, make
plans to have a happy Valentines Day next year,
Do remember that you have to like
yourself first before another person can like you.
Take a self inventory to make sure you
are a likable and lovable person. Just for fun you can test to see if
you are likeable or you need to improve. Search in Google for the
terms, “how likable are you” and “how lovable are you” to
find the quizzes that will test your for likableness and lovableness.
Make efforts to find a mate. If you
don't know how to do that, you have six months to learn and six month
Let us look at the world of the Saints:
Happy to be a saint for love.
I would rather have love than money.
I would rather have love now, even if
it doesn't last.
I have love now, I will worry about
I love candy.
I love flowers.
I love the idea of being in love.
I love the glow of being in love.
I love those Valentinus Die ads!
I love how people feel when they
receive my gifts and greetings.
It's better to have loved and lost than
to have not loved at all.
If you have decided to ignore it, just
use the advertisements to remind you to stay on track of the things
you were engaged with before the ads started.
Let us look at the world of the Wizard:
Happy to be happy, period.
I would rather use my money to do what
I would rather have true love that
I have reality now and I can find true
I love good food.
I can always get flowers.
I will get the kind of love I desire.
I love the glow of being healthy and
thinking for myself.
Each of those Valentinus Die ads
reminds me to think for myself.
I love to make people happy every day
of the year.
I will find true love not transient
...you can enjoy Valentines Day simply
by making a decision whether you want to be a Saint or A Wizard.
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